相处: to be in contact (with sb), to associate, to interact, to get along (well, poorly)...
想念: to miss, to remember with longing, to long to see again...
手里: in hand, (a situation is) in sb's hands...
茎: stalk, stem...
请问: Excuse me, may I ask...?...
描写: to describe, to depict, to portray, description...
姜: ginger...
刚刚: just recently, just a moment ago...
专长: specialty, special knowledge or ability...
外援: foreign aid, external aid, (sports) foreign player, player recruited from overseas...